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I Chose the Lazy Option in College. It Completely Rewired How I Write

In college, I competed in something called intercollegiate forensics. Or in more normal words, speech and debate. I joined because I needed to improve my English and what better way to do it than to completely embarrase yourself speaking about politics, economics and culture. To travel with the t...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 09, 2026 editing memoir publishing writing

If You're Still Reading These Emails, You Know You Want to Join.

Six hours. That's what's left before I close registration for The Story Frame Sprint. After midnight, the door closes. The cohort is set. The sprint starts tomorrow morning at 9 am PST. If you have been on the fence all week — reading the emails, feeling the pull, finding reasons to wait — I want...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 09, 2026 editing memoir writing

Registration Closes in Hours. Four Days From Now, You'll Have a Finished Story.

The Story Frame Sprint starts tomorrow morning at 9 am PST. A few spots are still open. If you've been reading these emails all week and haven't pulled the trigger yet — this is the last real window. Registration closes tonight. Here's what the next four days look like: Day 1 — Story Frame Founda...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 08, 2026 editing memoir publishing writing

Tomorrow Is the Day You Either Start or Wait Another Year

Most people who want to write their memoir are waiting. Waiting for more time. Waiting to feel ready. Waiting for the kids to be older, the job to slow down, the calendar to open up in a way it never quite does. I understand the waiting. I did it for two decades. Here is what I know now that I di...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 08, 2026 editing memoir sharing writing

Six Years of Journals, Outlines, and False Starts. His Memoir Still Isn't Finished. Here's Why.

My writing journey took me on a detour a few years back. I became an editor for a handful of publications, including three that I co-founded with two friends. This was one of the best experiences I could've had, and I would've never sought it out. I had an opportunity to meet hundreds of writers ...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 08, 2026 editing memoir writing

I'll Be Honest With You. I Don't Like the Word Memoir

There. I said it. If you say the word memoir people think of one very specific thing. A famous person. An extraordinary life. Extreme trauma, told with enough literary distance to make it feel inaccessible to the rest of us. And that framing excludes normal people like you and me. So let me tell...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 07, 2026 editing memoir writing

The Best Stories Are Told After the Event Ends. Here's How to Write Yours.

After every storytelling circle I've ever run, the same thing happens. Someone comes up to me afterward — usually quiet during the event, usually the last one to leave — and they tell me a story. Not a polished one. Just something that spills out because the room made it feel safe enough to let i...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 06, 2026 editing memoir writing

You Don't Need an Exceptional Life. You Need to Stop Waiting for One.

Every time I sit down to write, I have to remind myself of something. I am not a celebrated memoirist with a book deal and a profile in The Paris Review. I am a Colombian-American sales professional from Petaluma who writes personal essays in the hours really early in the morning before his daugh...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 05, 2026 editing memoir writing

Your Stories Are Fading. Preserve Them in 4 Days (Not 4 Years)

Over the past couple of years, whenever someone I know comes across a good article on the power of storytelling, they forward it to me. I really enjoy receiving these because they confirm what I have long witnessed when I produce storytelling circles or help people with their memoirs. I am notic...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 04, 2026 editing memoir storytelling writing

I'm Running a Four-Day Sprint Next Week to Help You Write Your Memoir

I'm running The Story Frame Sprint next week with one simple outcome in mind: walk away with one complete, polished memoir story and a full 30-chapter memoir outline — in four days, one hour each. Every person who has ever told me they want to write a memoir already has one. Not written. Not outl...

by Carlos Garbiras — Mar 02, 2026 editing memoir storytelling writing

The Cracker That Reminded Me of Narrative Structure

My youngest daughter knows how to negotiate. Recently, she stood by the foot of her bed — pajamas on, holding on to her butterfly stuffie — and said, "Dadda. I go to sleep if you give me one more snack, keep the light on, and play one more song." I said no to all three. She cried. I reconsidered ...

Feb 23, 2026 memoir storytelling writing

Start With the Middle, Not the Beginning

Most people try to write stories from start to finish. That's why it is often difficult to complete stories, or they get stuck on the opening and never make it to the good part. It is particularly difficult when your story is not neatly packaged, and you need to give background to it, the heart o...

by Carlos Garbiras — Feb 12, 2026 editing memoir storytelling writing

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Lessons and Inspiration to Write Your Memoir

Tags: memoir

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Lessons and Inspiration to Write Your Memoir

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